I would like us to have a relationship. I want us to change how we communicate and interact with each other for us to heal and move forward. We would like for the four of us to sit down and hit a restart button on our relationships. This will not be NOT a bitch session. No digging up the past, no apologies. We need to agree on new guidelines on how we will treat and respect each other in the future, and how we will be part of each other’s lives.
We would like to meet somewhere before Christmas so we can start that day fresh and without the baggage of the past. Again, this is not about hashing out the past. You don’t have to apologize or defend yourself for anything. It’s about treating each other decently from this point forward. I personally need a good relationship with my boys. We need to change how we communicate and interact with each other for us to heal and move forward. Please let me know when and where we can meet, restaurant, bar, our house. This is really important to me and I don’t want us to miss out on any more years together. Please help us do this.